Squirrels, Fire, Diabetic Cats, and Cinnamon Toast - Random Thoughts From Me
A little about my life recently; including a squirrel sucking it’s own member
A Dirty Story With 7 Realistic Lady-gasms!
An SSL Review of the depictions/discussions of female orgasm in an erotic story. It was so surprisingly lady-gasm realistic that I had to write about it.
Terrible Advice About Vaginal Masturbation
I go into detail about the crappy answer a Bustle advisor gives for the questions, “How does vaginal orgasm work? Not clitoral.”
5 Black Woman Directed Movies Touching on Racial Injustice in Law Enforcement
A list of 5 movies I have seen that are directed by black women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Does masturbation have to include orgasm - a debate with myself
A bit of a stream of consciousness debate with myself. Is the advice that orgasm shouldn’t be a focus of masturbation sensible and progressive; or is it a secretly poisonous byproduct of a rarely acknowledged sexual culture in which women have very little actual choice and opportunity for orgasm.
Ladies Have Non-Specific Arousal Patterns? - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “A Sex Difference in the Specificity of Sexual Arousal.” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
She Devil - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in She-Devil – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Ejaculation Associated With Bladder Muscle Overactivity? - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “Do women with female ejaculation have detrusor overactivity?” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
Future Man - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Future Man Season 1 Episode 3 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Where Does Touch To the Clit Activate In The Brain - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “The Somatosensory Representation of the Human Clitoris: An fMRI Study” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
5 Good-ass Lady Directed Movies to Watch During a Pandemic
A list of 5 good movies I have seen related that are directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Landline - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in ‘Landline’ – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Masturbation Advice In The Time Of Corona
Since we’re all locked down, why not masturbate? Here’s some SSL-related tips.
Lady-gasm Equality: We Need A Revolution Not More Communication in Bed
If I hear one more person listen to my message and say back to me something like, “Exactly! It’s all about communications,” I’ll lose my damn mind. That’s not even close to what I’m saying, and the orgasm equality problem is about soooo much more than communication. Let me break it down by flipping the perspective.
Night At The Roxbury - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in ‘A Night at the Roxbury’ – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
The Year of Spectacular Men - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in ‘The Year of Spectacular Men’ – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Parasite - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in ‘Parasite’ – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
"Venkmaning" - Ghostbuster's Most Sexual Predator Moment
I saw a piece of OG Ghostbusters in the breakroom at work. The sexual predator level was high in one of the very first scenes, and I just wanted to write about it. I’m calling it Venkmaning, and I break it down here.
Ribbed for Her Pleasure on the Interwebs: F'd Up Shit
I found some sad yet strangely poignant articles about ‘ribbed for her pleasure’ while researching for my previous post. They were out of scope, but I wanted to give them some air-time here. Spoiler: women need higher sexual expectations.
Ribbed For Her Pleasure Is Some Next Level Bullshit
The idea of ribbed condoms seem to assume the vagina is like an inside-out penis. It is not. “…unless you're using the condom as a glove to rub her clit, the idea that condoms with some texture on them could improve a woman's ability to orgasm is the biggest bullshit.”